The Art of Moving In Together

The decision to move in together is huge step. It marks the next step in a couple’s relationship. Moving in together is a visible sign of the decision to make a commitment to another person and become an official couple. Many couples understandably look at this decision with great excitement. They may also feel slightly fearful as well. Part of making any move in plan progress well is having a plan fully in place before the move begins. Before taking the next steps, it helps think carefully about all aspects of the planned move. A move that is well planned from the very first will help reduce what might otherwise be a potentially quite stressful period in the lives of both people.

Decide What To Bring

One of the first things to decide before planning any move between two people is exactly what to bring. Many couples will have similar items. For example, a couple may both have a complete set of flatware as well as a single bed. In that case, it makes sense to take the time to create a detailed inventory. This inventory should list all the items that the couple wants to move. A couple doesn’t really need two coffee makers, two microwave ovens and two complete sets of bedroom side tables. In that case, the two should examine each item they plan to move and decide if it fits in their new space. Couples can decide what to do with the items they have but don’t want to move. For example, they could donate it to charity or they could choose to sell it. This helps save on overall moving costs like cheap moving boxes.

Create a Budget

All couples who are planning to move in together should take into account that doing so will also affect their finances. Paying for specifics such as the electrical bill should be worked out in advance if possible. Keep in mind that living together can also help couples save money. Couples who move in together will typically face reduced housing costs as well as reduced costs of other kinds such as decreased utility bills. Many couples choose to start off by splitting all of their costs equally down the middle. Each person will pay for each item. As couples see their relationship continue to grow and expand, many couples chose to combine their total expenses together. Setting a budget right from the start before doing anything else is a great way to start off on the right foot from the very first day.

Make Realistic Plans

While moving in together can lead to a permanent relationship, in many cases it can also create tensions. This is why it helps to avoid long-term leases. Starting off with a shorter lease is often a far better option. If something doesn’t work out, each member of the couple has an out and is not stuck in a living situation that no longer works for them. When couples realize that all is working out, then they can choose to take the next step. In that case, couples can move forward with great confidence knowing they have a stable relationship that is going to last. Careful planning makes it possible for couple to move in together successfully.


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